I think they are referring to not tossing the coach on a quick thought. At a recent clinic I attended they covered a similar topic. They talked about giving the coach a little bit of rope to hang himself by letting him act a little bit nuts and you keep your cool. This lets everyone see that your not a RedA$$ along with you tried to not toss the clown but he was acting like a clown! Don't get me wrong, he doesn't always get "A little bit of rope to hang himself." if his actions are of the wall, send the Rat on his way.
Best thing to be know as is, He's a nice guy but don't piss him off!