I agree. In a case where the play is looking to be close in the outfield, it is the base umpire's job to turn his back to you and go out. You would then in turn take the bases in a one man system watching the tag ups.
I have also noticed that a lot of the responses end with an ejection. As an umpire all of my coaches know how hard headed I am. I stick to any call I make (hell I had a ball hit foul, hit the bag, and roll foul again last night. I had already made my mind up to call it foul, and even though I knew as soon as I made my call it was fair, I stuck with it). They all realize this and I'll let them come up and make their point, but they realize that it's not going to help the situation any and it's because of this I can say that I have yet to have an ejection.
Another reason is because in all of the leagues I do there is a lot of paperwork involved after the ejection, and I am lazy and really don't feel like doing homework on top of my homework from school. I have two extremely hard classes right now and don't have time for more.
I do understand that my umpiring career is still very young, and I'm no where near seeing everything as well as having to handle extremely intense situations. I'm sure my list of ejections will definately start somewhere, but until that day I play on handling each and every situation as calmly and as professionally as I can.
I am actually taking a class right now and in it I was taught this new method to handling intense situations. It is called the side step method. How this method works is it takes the confrontation down a level by allowing the umpire to stay at the coaches side rather than to be locked nose to nose in a combatative position. Just a thought!