As soon as I heard the word F - - -, he is gone. To many people are letting these guys get away with this crap and expecting other people to clean it up. I have tossed only a handfull in 20 years but it would be automatic if they use that language, especially in front of kids. In HS ball down here, if you toss, you must fill out a report and they head to Austin. We put them in the dugout. The last place they want to go is Austin. Always be polite and professional on the field but at times firm. Game management is crucial. Balls and strikes are the easy part, managing the game seperates you from a lot of others.
Someone asked if you had a tight zone? What on earth does that have to do with him using an f bomb in front of kids, women and other fans?