Thanks for the responses, especially about not doing the paperwork. My take away from this, there is now no record that the pitcher intentionally beaned a batter and my son spent the next 3 innings talking about retaliation. The batter has had a mouth all season, but this was more about bat swinging, pitcher stepping off batter stepping out. There was no history between the teams. I just don't see a need to intentionally bean a kid. Nor is it okay to retaliate and potentially hurt the pitcher later in the game. It would have been so much easier to toss him and end that situation. The baseball God's sorted it out. The beaned batter scored the go ahead run in the 4th inning and they lit up the relievers for 5 more in the next two innings.