9/10 yr old dixie youth baseball. I asked my senior umpire and my TD if we were doing the high school rules about number of visits. Between every inning the VT Assistant coach would walk out to the mound from coaching 1st ( so when his team came out on Defense). I never told him it was a visit? is that common courtesy or is it a rule? anyways in the 3rd inning, HC calls time out to go talk to his pitcher. I told him that was the 4th visit and he had to change pitchers. youd thought i had told him i was gonna punch his kid. so he wants to protest the game. We talk to the TD who has my association UIC on the phone, and TC tells us that the coach gets 2 visits an inning then has to take the pitcher out on the 3. TD tells coach he can keep his pitcher in but coach is to mad at this point and already has a new pitcher on the mound. This has turned into more of a rant but how could i have handled the craziness better?