First off, I have been a long time lurker here on the forums yet this is my first post. I find this forum to be a good meeting place for us umpires and am very glad I found it when I did.
I had a varsity district game between two rival teams yesterday. With an 0-1 count the batter leans his leg into a curveball and is hit on the knee. I immediately call time and place the batter back into the box stating that he cannot dive into the pitch to purposefully get hit. In my judgement, if he does not bury the knee he does not get hit. The count is know 1-1 and the next pitch is a curveball that looks as if it is going right at the batter, however it breaks and crosses on the inside corner just a bit above the waist to which I call strike 2. After calling strike 2 he kind of just turned and looked at me for a second and shook his head. I ignored this. The 1-2 pitch was a bit outside and the batter attempted to strike at the ball but missed. Upon missing on his swing, he turns directly to me and says "Thanks blue for putting me back in the box then calling the stirke at my shoulder causing me to strike out". He then started towards the dugout. I immediately ejected him for his statement. The coach was rather adamant that I should have given him the ability to control the player. To me this is not an action where you allow the coach to handle the player as it was a direct remark to me that everyone in the park could see and possibly hear. I personally think that this is disrespectful and attempting to show me up and is an objectable offense. Thoughts?